Arg! For fuck's sake, where do people get the idea that submissive means weak or demure? If I hear one more person say to me "You don't seem very submissive, you're pretty straight forward" I'm going to flip a damn lid! They automatically seem to think that I'm Dominant or Domme because of it and try to get me to play those roles.
Guess what, for those of you who don't know, someone can be both a submissive and assertive. Not everyone deserves my submission. Not everyone is going to get it.
