Squirting. Not That Elusive.

After some recent criticism about a post of mine where a first time scenario resulted in a squirt, I started thinking about it. The guy who critiqued it and I discussed the likelihood of it and I explained something rather embarrassing to him. How it works when I squirt. By embarrassing, I mean to me, not to him. What guy is going to be embarrassed by a woman squirting? Few that I know of. Squirting. What is it? Yes. Well there's an embarrassing question for most women and honestly most women and men have no clue. I really think that every woman is capable of it because we all possess that magic little gland that holds the fluid. There's that debate on whether it's releasing the bladder and the like… but for me and other women that I've talked to about it, the fluid comes from inside the vagina, not up by the clit where the urethra is located. I found out that I could squirt on accident. As do most women who can. It happened one day during random sex, there was a hot rush of fluid that scared me. I literally thought that I'd pissed on my hubs and frantically searched the net for anything that I could find after confessing my 'sin' to a friend online. She told me what had happened and I was amazed. Months passed without it happening again and I was dismayed because it had felt amazing. So internet research led me to 'stimulation of the g-spot'. Okay. Not hard to find. We found it and the orgasms, and the squirting, were great. But then I noticed something, during play, I could squirt without actually cumming at all. Of course, the hubs thought that I had so that led to a chat after a few times of him stopping when I was getting close. LOL. After some time of playing with it, quite literally, I realized that I didn't even have to have G-spot stimulation, let alone penetration to squirt. So what the fuck causes it? I'm not really sure if it's different for me than most people but for me it has to do with how my body tenses up for climax. If I just tighten, I don't usually squirt, but when I push down, as if trying to push a cock [or toy, or air if there is no penetration] out of my body, that's when the fluids start flying. How far is 'for me to know'. :P So, writing this blog is rather embarrassing, but… for the ladies that read, try pushing down as if you are trying to shove the intruder out and see if that doesn't help. So if you're reading this and want more information, look me up on Elliquiy or shoot me an IM.